My boyfriend won t have sex

Duration: 10min 33sec Views: 1736 Submitted: 21.12.2019
Category: Gay
I have been dating my boyfriend for nine months and we haven't been intimate yet. I am a pretty sexual person, so I've asked him a few times why he doesn't want to move further in our relationship. In the beginning, he told me that his last relationship ended badly and that he hasn't had sex in four years, so he feels uncomfortable. I understood and didn't bring it up again for a few months.

My Partner Doesn't Want To Have Sex Anymore — What Should I Do?

Why Doesn't He Want to Have Sex With Me? | HuffPost

While you were dating and during the honeymoon years of your marriage , you lovebirds likely couldn't keep your hands off of each other. Physical attraction and sex are trademark signs of a healthy relationship, according to research published in the Journal of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences. But how does sexual intimacy between partners adapt with age? As men age, it's natural for them to experience a somewhat decreased sex drive, says Jeanne O'Connell , M. According to a review published in the Journal of Nurse Practitioners , sexual intimacy declines around age 45 and continues to decline with age. Physiological components can be at play, such as age-related changes in blood flow and shifts in hormones. Other barriers to sexual intimacy may include health conditions, an inability to orgasm, a lack of confidence in the bedroom, and a decline in the desire to engage in sexual activities in general, regardless of your feelings towards your partner.

Why Doesn't He Want to Have Sex With Me?

It might be time to re-evaluate if you're suffering in a sexless marriage or relationship. If you're experiencing similar problems, you certainly aren't alone. All attraction just went out the window.
You're lying in bed bumping up against that body next to you, seething with hurt and anger. You haven't been touched or reached for in more months than you care to count. You've gone through the typical exercises of seduction, friendship and caring, only to have been rejected and thwarted again and again.